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CB: Came and Left feeling Defeated
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CB: Came and Left feeling Defeated

One of my last counselling sessions was a difficult one. I had multiple ailings to discuss and was just feeling hopeless about everything. One thing I find difficult is admitting…
Posted by samara.johnson 02/10/2021
CB: I Am Fat?
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CB: I Am Fat?

*Phew* this is a difficult one. I’ve had this post in my drafts for months now, but I’m feeling the fear and doing at anyway. Do you know how hard…
Posted by samara.johnson 18/09/2021
CB: Motherhood?
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CB: Motherhood?

This is quite easily one of the things that scares me the most. You know it’s one thing you can’t really take back or have a trial period for? It’s…
Posted by samara.johnson 24/07/2021
CB: I Got Read to the White Meat
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CB: I Got Read to the White Meat

*insert* Now there are some counselling sessions where your counsellor reads your behind like a book. And I mean “read” like telling you about yourself FULLY. And that is precisely…
Posted by samara.johnson 30/06/2021
CB: The Need to be Needed
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CB: The Need to be Needed

I have come to realise I entertain something that is low-key detrimental to myself and others. This is the “need to be needed”. What a phenomenon. Anyone else suffering with…
Posted by samara.johnson 16/06/2021
CB: I Am Just Not Ready
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CB: I Am Just Not Ready

For dating 😵 I promise I just don’t believe I’ll ever be truly ready and raring to go dating. Whenever I’ve recently gotten myself into a position to get to…
Posted by samara.johnson 09/06/2021
CB: Hustling on my Own
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CB: Hustling on my Own

I went four weeks without a counselling session…. I bet you’re wondering how I survived right? Me too to be perfectly frank. But I’m still here 🥲 So I spent…
Posted by samara.johnson 19/05/2021
CB: How Counselling has Benefitted me Thus Far
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CB: How Counselling has Benefitted me Thus Far

I have grown so much!!! My counsellor told me so 😝 And she’s known me since circa 2012. Haha but on a real, counselling has helped me so much. I…
Posted by samara.johnson 21/04/2021
CB: I Attract Narcissists???
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CB: I Attract Narcissists???

God Forbid. Just because words mean things. Haha! But I have noticed, some of the men I have attracted have a narcissistic streak. And I began to wonder what was…
Posted by samara.johnson 07/04/2021
CB: I Am Worthy
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CB: I Am Worthy

Gosh! Does anyone ever think no one will love them until they’ve fixed all their imperfections? I do. I know it’s common :) In my last session, I talked about…
Posted by samara.johnson 24/03/2021

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