CB: Came and Left feeling Defeated
One of my last counselling sessions was a difficult one. I had multiple ailings to discuss and was just feeling hopeless about everything. One thing I find difficult is admitting when I’m wrong and then having to receive the confirmations about that fact…
CB: I Am Fat?
*Phew* this is a difficult one. I’ve had this post in my drafts for months now, but I’m feeling the fear and doing at anyway. Do you know how hard it is to say that word? “Fat”? How society has depicted the word to be a negative connotation. Akin to…
CB: Motherhood?
This is quite easily one of the things that scares me the most. You know it’s one thing you can’t really take back or have a trial period for? It’s for life. My thoughts and feelings toward Motherhood, especially in regards to becoming a Mother myself…
CB: I Got Read to the White Meat
*insert* Now there are some counselling sessions where your counsellor reads your behind like a book. And I mean “read” like telling you about yourself FULLY. And that is precisely what happened to me. Now I have been having a situation recently (well,…
CB: The Need to be Needed
I have come to realise I entertain something that is low-key detrimental to myself and others. This is the “need to be needed”. What a phenomenon. Anyone else suffering with me? I have started to think about where this has stemmed from and I know it’s…
CB: I Am Just Not Ready
For dating 😵 I promise I just don’t believe I’ll ever be truly ready and raring to go dating. Whenever I’ve recently gotten myself into a position to get to know someone, I am filled with apathy. I truly cannot be bothered. That doesn’t mean I don’t miss…
CB: Hustling on my Own
I went four weeks without a counselling session…. I bet you’re wondering how I survived right? Me too to be perfectly frank. But I’m still here 🥲 So I spent a month away from York, mostly in Birmingham and some time spent in London. This meant that I was…
CB: How Counselling has Benefitted me Thus Far
I have grown so much!!! My counsellor told me so 😝 And she’s known me since circa 2012. Haha but on a real, counselling has helped me so much. I have learned infinitely more about myself and I am still learning. First off, I’ve learned counselling does…
CB: I Attract Narcissists???
God Forbid. Just because words mean things. Haha! But I have noticed, some of the men I have attracted have a narcissistic streak. And I began to wonder what was it about me that attracts narcissists. First of all what is a Narcissist? Narcissist:…
CB: I Am Worthy
Gosh! Does anyone ever think no one will love them until they’ve fixed all their imperfections? I do. I know it’s common 🙂 In my last session, I talked about not being able to love myself completely and thus disallowing a man to love me as well. My…