When?
What a jarring feeling it is to have someone consistently hurt your heart. It is not in me to be malicious and uncaring, therefore when I put myself in a position where I am giving some of myself, and not getting anything in return… it’s hurtful.…
CB: I Attract Narcissists???
God Forbid. Just because words mean things. Haha! But I have noticed, some of the men I have attracted have a narcissistic streak. And I began to wonder what was it about me that attracts narcissists. First of all what is a Narcissist? Narcissist:…
Just Because I’m Christian Does Not Mean I Won’t Cuss You
Ahem 😌 She lives and loves to kill them with kindness. But she also has the ability to to have you grasping your chest with the truth of it all. Now I am quite the meek one, quiet, likes to fade into the background. I’m also not the best at standing up…
Ninth Time
It took only nine times To realise you were never what I thought you to be The ninth time you came between my legs It appeared to me, like an epiphany As tears stream down to my ears I think to myself: “I was right”
CB: I Am Worthy
Gosh! Does anyone ever think no one will love them until they’ve fixed all their imperfections? I do. I know it’s common 🙂 In my last session, I talked about not being able to love myself completely and thus disallowing a man to love me as well. My…
I am a Woman and I am Scared
Blessing Olusegun. Sarah Everard. The thoughts that come to mind when I say their names… Horrible. Scary. Why her? Could it have been me? My blood runs cold because it could have been any one of us. I get scared all over again. As a woman, I have…
Ode to Mothers on Mother’s Day
Truly I tell you Motherhood has to be the single most hardest, yet rewarding roles undertaken. I’m no Mother, but I am arguably a fruit reaped from the Mothering I have experienced. I am grateful and blessed to have had the parenting that’s brought me to…
Melanin in this Skin
Do you know what it’s like to have melanin in your skin? To be degraded and labelled as “less than”? To be sidelined, bullied and harassed? For some people, these are not the first things that come to mind when we think about melanated skin. Most people…
CB: Our Parents are Human Too
Forgiving our parents is a real thing that comes with age. How many of us used to think our parents were perfect? Or knew everything? Or even that they got everything right all the time? It’s hard not to think your parents are everything to us, when…
Singleness in Church
Anyone else feel like being single in church is an almost-sin? I swear it’s treated like a disease we need to be cured from or something. Now I know a lot of Christians aspire to marriage, but let’s not make marriage a goal, rather a preferred part of…